Maybe He Doesn’t Hit
So I was doing my normal surfing on social media and came across the #maybehedoesnthit movement. I was truly inspired and sad about the stories from both men and women about the abuse they dealt with in their relationships. I…
Wellness
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Ask Toi: Do I go on vacation with my girlfriend if we haven’t dated long?
I think its going to boil down to your goals in the relationship and your comfort level. Going on a vacation with someone you aren’t really interested in making something work may not be a good idea. For one it…
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Ask Toi: Is it ever inappropriate to speak to a mother in law when disrespect comes to play?
I can say that this is a pretty vague question. You are to give your elders in general respect and that includes mother in laws. Respect is also earned and therefore if you are in a tight spot with a…
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My Birthday Message
So today is the day-my born day. I overheard a co-worker say that once you turn 28 you as a woman are to never tell your age. I can see that. I know of many women who after they turn…
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You Got This!
I know we are coming off all of the beautiful tributes to our moms all around the world. Let me clarify that Mother’s Day is a place of pain for so many. It really is a sad week and there…
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Tributes to Mom
My mom is the kind of woman where everyone around her genuinely wants to be around her. She is patient, kind, and puts others above her. She has been such a beacon of light. I know for a fact that…
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Pay it Forward
Paying it forward is another way of giving of yourself, your time, and your energy to someone else. It doesn’t have anything to do with what’s deserved. You literally can pay it forward not just today but on every day….
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Ask Toi: Is it okay to ask my wife’s sister not to visit our home?
It depends. This is a very vague question. On the surface the answer is no. My reasoning is simple, if your family is allowed what makes your wife’s sister not able to come to your home? Now let me say unless…
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My husband has always had a smell and now it’s getting worse, what do I do?
My first question before I tell you what to do is to propose some questions for you to ask yourself. How did you get to the point where he became your husband and he had a smell? I’m not attacking…
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Ask Toi: Is it normal for parents to call during a couple’s honeymoon?
No. I think its customary that unless the parents are keeping young children of the couple to not call. Let’s face it you won’t be focused on friends and family too much while you are relaxing and loving on each…
