Weekly Wrap Up: March 24, 2017
So I want to start doing a weekly wrap up with my readers. I first want to say thank you for rocking out with me. Some of you have been loyal since day one 2 years ago and some are…
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Ask Toi: We have an open marriage in that we don’t check in with each other but now he’s booking trips without me, what do I do?
This not checking in life for marriage doesn’t settle with me. Even in the absence of children in a marriage this concept of everyone doing them sounds like polar opposite of what marriage looks like to ME. This is my…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
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Yay for Spring!
It’s finally here in all of its cold and still snow on the ground love. Spring has arrived. Who wouldn’t be happy? What I love about Spring is that it brings me that much closer to my favorite season and…
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Women’s Month: Who is KJM?
I have had the unique opportunity to come across some really unique blogs over the years. I find that I usually lean more towards the one that tell it like it is. I am not saying I don’t like the…
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Ask Toi: My husband cheated and now wants to go to counseling after months of asking. I don’t want to go now because I feel like it’s after the point. I also don’t want to sit and hear about how sorry he is now when I don’t believe him….
Well first of all let me say how sorry I am that you have been put in this situation. First of all let me acknowledge that how you feel is real and honest. I am quite sure that was your…
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Our hearts ache…Parents Matter
I am still fine tuning some of the articles and women that we will showcase this month. There are a few things we must talk about that kind of are backbones of us all male or female. Our parents. Yes…
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Ask Toi: My ex got in contact with me to tell me that I am miserable its messing with my head,what can I do?
There’s something I learned I believe from my mom, you can’t stop people from calling (back then you couldn’t) but you can choose who you answer. You do NOT need to entertain your ex’s shenanigans. Even if that was true…
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Ask Toi: I am dating a woman and I am a woman and my girlfriend is very controlling..says that shes been better than anyone male or female and I should deal, what is your advice?
It doesn’t matter to me that you are a woman dating another woman. No relationship should be so demanding and controlling. If it makes you uncomfortable than it should be heard and followed through with change, period. Just because a…
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Ask Toi: My husband has told me he doesn’t want to go out on dates unless I can reassure him it will lead to sex…What do I do?
First of all you have to ask him why he feels that way. There is a reason. If he doesn’t feel as if he is getting enough than maybe asking when you have special evenings is the reason. You will…
