What it Means to be a Woman
The statement of what it means to be a woman is so complicated. Some would answer this in relation to their status meaning a wife or mother but the reality is being a woman when you strip the titles is…
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Ask Toi: What do I do my husband found out my password is my ex’s name?
First of all how did he find out? I know plenty of couples who know passwords and passcodes to things and that is not an issue. You stated that he “found” out which would sound as if he didn’t have…
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Educators
This last week or so have been a whirlwind. I have been at both of my children’s school as well as making sure that both of my older children have what they need. Since the death of their grandma my…
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Cat Fight Chronicles
You know there’s a thing about women being catty. Not all women but quite a few. The reason in my opinion as to why there are so many catty women in the world is that we don’t have enough women who…
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Nancy you have got to go…
You ever meet a real life negative Nancy? The one who complains about the sun being in the sky. They always have some rebuttal for everything you say. They are dissatisfied in their own lives and the only time they…
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Warm Weather Mixes
So if you live in the East you may have experienced some unseasonably warm weather lately. Let me encourage your heart, it’s not the real Spring. So although I say get out and enjoy it, there a few things to…
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Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
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Why I am not being nice to Side Chicks
Today is Side Chick Appreciation day. This is the day when the memes come out hard. I heard someone say that we should be nice to a side chick and this is my response to that, hell naw I won’t….
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Sunday Blues
Am I the only one who spends their Sundays trying to get their entire life together? Literally from running around getting the house cleaned, meal prepping, church, relaxation (whenever I can), laundry, etc there are not enough hours in one day….
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Insomnia, ToiTime’s Way: Valentine’s Day Warning
Okay picture this it was 2005 and I had been out of college for a few years. So I had met my Mr. Right Now and he had me in an outer body experience. I hadn’t introduced him to my…
