Sunday Message: “What She Said”
So today is turning out not quite how I had in mind. I’ve finally ate breakfast yet it’s clearly late lunch time right now. I woke up with the worst headache. I haven’t had a migraine like this in quite…
bad behavior
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Ask Toi: What do I do if I want to expose a person?
This is a general question. There really needs to be followed up with questions to this situation. Focus on the meaning as to why you want to expose the person. If it’s due to a crime or harm especially where…
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My Reactions to Jennifer Lewis’ Breakfast Club Interview
So I watched the interview with Jenifer Lewis and it had my full attention for over an hour. Let me forewarn a few that she is who she is. If you have ever seen her or listened to her then…
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Monday: Restore
It’s another Monday upon us. Depending on how your weekend went makes a difference in what you see going into a new week! Sometimes when you have a bad weekend and you don’t reset, it makes you speak badly about…
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Birthday Message: 37 is freeing
Soooooooooo it’s the final day of #toibration. It’s my actual birthday today. What a year it has been! Every birthday is a time to renew! It’s a personal New Year! It’s a time to reset! It’s a time to figure…
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Ask Toi: Was I Wrong for calling my husband a child?!
Yes. For my readers women all over call their husband an “extra child.” However that shouldn’t be a serious conversation and not in front of other people. This wife made a scene at a restaurant and then called him a…
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Keep it Together….
You never know who sees you or is watching you. Listen I am the one who can literally go off on anybody. I’m my own professional hype woman. However there are times when you have to be able to learn…
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Monday Motivation: Count you blessings
Today is April 30th. That means that the end of the month is here and we are about to step into a new month. Often times we judge ourselves on what others have done in comparison to what we have…
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Real Love: Friendship Edition
So I have been documenting my journey during various stints of my life. I have talked extensively about moving to Philadelphia from Lancaster and how hard it was for me to adjust to life in general. I STRUGGLED. There were…
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Monday Reset
Good Monday morning. I know its hard to start your week off right on days when you don’t feel you are at your best. Today is one of those super soaker rainy days when all you want to do is…