National Compliment Day
Today is national compliment day. I am sure you knew that right? Well let’s talk about them. I know we all love to get them. They make you feel warm, beautiful and confident. However there are a few things to…
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Everything isn’t What it Seems
I want to highlight a few things. I’ve said it before and I will say it again, things on social media can look grande and be filled with so much smoke screen. Yes that is how life rolls. However keep…
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Ask Toi: How do you deal with someone who Deflects all the time?
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
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Ask Toi: How Do I Work Through Loneliness?
Its hard. Let’s acknowledge that. Sometimes we dive into things so I wanted to acknowledge that frustrating feeling. It can be an uneasy feeling to feel like you have no one in your court. In order to work through it…
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Martin Luther King Jr. Would be Disappointed
So today is MLK day. The day we remember the teachings and words that Dr. King’s legacy was supposed to enlighten us to do. Dr. King faced adversity and his message was clear that we change how we interact with…
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I was therefore I am…own your …. edition
So we are in the New Year and so many of us are trying to be positive and make change. With that in mind we have to be honest about what we have done or do that contribute to some…
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If it ain’t funny, ain’t no LOL!!
So let’s dive right in. Sometimes you are stuck between being yourself which may include being vocal or direct and then when you’re working on yourself to be a better person you second guess yourself. Something so simple can make…
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Ask Toi: End of the Year Edition
I am going to end my Ask Toi with a few that I have yet to publish and answer. I pray that as we close this last month out and this week that you will go into the New Year…
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Check On Others
So it’s that time of the year where people are hurting bad. They are sad, depressed, angry, struggling and all kind of negative. Check in on others without having to wait until you get the tea of someone’s life. You…
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Ask Toi: Christmas Concerns
It’s 7 days before Christmas and with that in mind, let me answer a few Ask Toi that have been sent my way these last couple of days. Keep in mind that in order to submit a question, please email…
