Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
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Mommy Loves You Notes
Hey Mom this is for you. So I get it when your child goes off to the land of education there are far more things to be worried about. From their education; to their well being. In this day and…
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Cleaning Up for the New Year
It’s almost time for a New Year! Now I know some people are either on team resolutions or they feel like it’s the dumbest thing ever to do. With that being said, we still need to take the time to…
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Broke and Blessed
So the holidays have always reminded me of just how hard working my parents were and are. It reminds me of how blessed I really am. It’s no secret that at one point my family and I lived in a…
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Ask Toi: How do I resolve an argument with my husband regarding holiday traditions?
Simple. When you are married you both are coming from 2 different backgrounds. Even if you have similar backgrounds, the way you are both used to things will be different. Find out what means the most to the both of…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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Happy Anniversary ToiTime
Today is the day. I am so excited. It’s like a birthday and an anniversary all wrapped in one. So today I want to do some self reflecting. One, I can’t believe its been 2 years already. It seems like…
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The Thanksgiving Rush
So I am usually one for celebrating the holidays. However my days have been super long and I just realized that Thanksgiving is the next week. We have so much to do with closing out some of the items from…
