Love is…Intense
Tonight was on one. As I always like for you to go back and rewatch, these are my thoughts and reactions: Nuri knew damn well she shouldn’t have gone on that ski trip. Keith wanted to hit. Men ain’t inviting…
disappointments
-
-
Ask Toi: How do I adjust my feelings over my sibling sharing his/her HIV status publicly?
The biggest way to adjust your feelings is to understand who’s issue it is. The sibling is the one carrying the biggest weight of her health status so it’s up to him/her if they want it to be shared. Often…
-
Ask Toi: How do I handle my best friend who needed to stay with me but complains about my home?!
Welp if you are best friends people always assume that you should be able to freely speak on anything. To a certain degree that makes perfect sense but there are times that close friends will have to have difficult conversations….
-
Monday Inspiration: The Protection of No
Happy Monday to you. Today I want to talk about the pain that comes along with NO. Like children when we hear no we may experience a plethora of feelings. From being disappointed, to hurt, to anger. What you wanted…
-
Everything Ain’t About You
Listen I know that there are times when you can have sensitive spirits. It could be that you are going through a rough patch but please know that everything ain’t about you. There are times when you have to attempt…
-
The Gift of Friendship
When I was deep in my postpartum depression I would cut off my friends. Right after the birth of my son after moving from Lancaster to Philadelphia I felt isolated. I was isolated because in my mind I had told…
-
Teach the Babies-You’re Not Everyone’s Cup of Tea
So this week the recurring theme has been forgiveness. This is a tough lesson for many adults let alone my own son. This week for both of my older kids the trying to teach them to understand that its okay…
-
Martin Luther King Jr. Would be Disappointed
So today is MLK day. The day we remember the teachings and words that Dr. King’s legacy was supposed to enlighten us to do. Dr. King faced adversity and his message was clear that we change how we interact with…
-
Ask Toi: Can I monitor his weight as his wife?
No. In my mind when I hear you say monitor especially with everything else you have said in your letter you come off as motherly. Your job is to influence and encourage not to mother. When you use words like…
-
Ask Toi: You Got Questions….
Is not inviting someone with kids an acceptable reason for disincluding someone in your wedding?! No. Bottom line is if you’re being told this the kicker is they didn’t want to invite you. Your kids was the easy get out…
