Monday, Nope Not Today!
You ever have one of them days where things go left but you’re trying to press anyway. That is the day that I had this morning. I say had because in writing this I am releasing that negative energy into…
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Keep your Hands to Yourself
We got to keep our hands to ourselves. So today while out grabbing breakfast before work I see a man shove a woman. I am livid. A man comes from the middle of nowhere and grabs this young man up…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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Hurting the Kids
The kids should be off limits. So with the holidays in full swing we need to have a discussion about mixing families. It’s no secret that people are master manipulators. There is no fail proof way to determine if the…
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Happy Anniversary ToiTime
Today is the day. I am so excited. It’s like a birthday and an anniversary all wrapped in one. So today I want to do some self reflecting. One, I can’t believe its been 2 years already. It seems like…
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My Thankfulness
I know that is clichéd but the reality is for those who celebrate it, it really is about being grateful. It’s the one time of the year where you hold all the sour faces would perk up. We know you…
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How to Survive Thanksgiving with Annoying Family Members
You can’t choose your family and not even for Thanksgiving. At least that’s what they tell me. So what happens when you don’t feel like hearing Aunt Sally that don’t ever have her own crap together come questioning you on…
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It’s a Process! Helping kids Process Grief
Grief for kids is real. I can’t say that I have been my usual on top self. I have had bursts of my normal self but since the passing of my mother in law, life hasn’t been the same. One…
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You having a boy?
Ladies, ladies, ladies, this is one of those questions that if you are expecting a bundle of joy you semi welcome. Not when you step on the scale at the doctors and they tell you lost a total of 12…
