Warm Weather Mixes
So if you live in the East you may have experienced some unseasonably warm weather lately. Let me encourage your heart, it’s not the real Spring. So although I say get out and enjoy it, there a few things to…
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Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
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Why I am not being nice to Side Chicks
Today is Side Chick Appreciation day. This is the day when the memes come out hard. I heard someone say that we should be nice to a side chick and this is my response to that, hell naw I won’t….
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My Weight Loss Journey
So Happy Valentine’s Day. Today is February 14th. I am super excited among all the candy and treats that will be thrown around today to talk about my weight loss journey. Currently I am down another size in my clothes…
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Sunday Blues
Am I the only one who spends their Sundays trying to get their entire life together? Literally from running around getting the house cleaned, meal prepping, church, relaxation (whenever I can), laundry, etc there are not enough hours in one day….
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Get Your Ass Home
So recently my husband celebrated his birthday with a birthday trip with some of his closest friends. Now I am team enjoy your birthday and before we married we took trips separately etc. So him going away wasn’t a big…
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Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
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Ask Toi: Do I tell my husband his perfect friend is hitting on me?
Yes. There’s no way around it. Perfect in whomever eyes he still is perfectly wrong. Now to my readers the back story is this perfect friend of my reader’s husband adores his wife publicly on social media and appears to…
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Hidden Figures with my 7 year old
So this weekend I dedicated a lot of my energy towards my children. We went to go and see Hidden Figures. I directed most of my time for them all the time. As a mom they are always on my…
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Rewind
Yes its a late night. I finally got the toddler in her own bed. I have been doing bedtime boot camp so we can get some sleep around here. So I had a few seconds to go through my old…
