Flex Your No Muscles
I have to share a little battle with ya’ll. One because I need to get it off my chest and the other is because I just want to. I don’t get it. I have some really great friends. It’s the…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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Ask Toi: Do I have to give someone a thank you card for a thank you card?
No you don’t ever need to give a thank you card for a thank you card. If you want to acknowledge that you received it than do that. You can do that with a call that is brief or a…
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Monday, Nope Not Today!
You ever have one of them days where things go left but you’re trying to press anyway. That is the day that I had this morning. I say had because in writing this I am releasing that negative energy into…
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Keep your Hands to Yourself
We got to keep our hands to ourselves. So today while out grabbing breakfast before work I see a man shove a woman. I am livid. A man comes from the middle of nowhere and grabs this young man up…
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Ask Toi: If you wanted to throw a party for a friend that is married or in a relationship, do you have to ask their mate first?
I would say out of respect you would. How do you know that the mate or significant other would want to be the one that plans it? Or what if they were taking your friend out-of-town? Back in the days…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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Hurting the Kids
The kids should be off limits. So with the holidays in full swing we need to have a discussion about mixing families. It’s no secret that people are master manipulators. There is no fail proof way to determine if the…
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Happy Anniversary ToiTime
Today is the day. I am so excited. It’s like a birthday and an anniversary all wrapped in one. So today I want to do some self reflecting. One, I can’t believe its been 2 years already. It seems like…
