Evaluate my life when I feel in Shambles…
Self evaluation of your life should happen often. How often is up to you. For me I always have a plan so I may look at things weekly if not daily. It’s not that I am attempting to carry the…
friends
“My married friends are worst than my single ones…”
I want to knock on wood, pray to baby Jesus the Black and the White one, go in a trance that I never have to know the betrayal of a husband in the form of another woman having my husband’s…
Running on Zero Energy
There are so many moment in life that you find yourself running on E. You do all that you can do extend yourself to a million and one place and then you find out that you are just at a…
National Coming Out Day
So today is the day. The day where people either come out or the ones who come out share their stories of how it was when they did. Come out from what? Come out and let the ones that they…
Birth of A Nation Flops
So I have been reading the many blogs that reported that Birth of a Nation flopped. I have been paying more attention to the comments. For those who have seen it have said nothing but great things about the film….
The Boys Club
I can’t stand the “boys club” Let me be clear as a married woman I’m not shopping around for a stand by mate. I have to make that disclaimer early because misery loves company and I’m good. I was on…
Ask Toi: How would you deal with a co-worker who keeps taking your ideas?
The only way a co-worker can take your ideas if you tell them your ideas. It’s simple in theory that you have to learn that you can’t share everything with everyone. This isn’t just with work relationships but its a…
Ask Toi: My husband is in the way, how do I end this?
The back story is that whenever the couple goes out especially in groups the wife feels like the husband is the third leg type of person since he has no relationship with her friends. My answer to this is why…
Keep Your Knee Pads
I want every lady to hear me. I need you to hear me loud and clear this morning. We as ladies have to have respect for ourselves. I had a discussion with my husband and we talked about the male…
Ask Toi: If he’s not Prince Charming than what?
That’s a question you need to ask and answer for yourself. What does prince charming look like for you? To some it based upon more physical attributes than anything else. You have to think and know what you want. Knowing…