Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
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Ask Toi: Do I tell my husband his perfect friend is hitting on me?
Yes. There’s no way around it. Perfect in whomever eyes he still is perfectly wrong. Now to my readers the back story is this perfect friend of my reader’s husband adores his wife publicly on social media and appears to…
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Hidden Figures with my 7 year old
So this weekend I dedicated a lot of my energy towards my children. We went to go and see Hidden Figures. I directed most of my time for them all the time. As a mom they are always on my…
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Rewind
Yes its a late night. I finally got the toddler in her own bed. I have been doing bedtime boot camp so we can get some sleep around here. So I had a few seconds to go through my old…
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Mommy Loves You Notes
Hey Mom this is for you. So I get it when your child goes off to the land of education there are far more things to be worried about. From their education; to their well being. In this day and…
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Emotional Taxes
So today was something like an epic fail of sorts emotionally. I can’t put my finger on one event that set me off but once I was there, it was hard to retreat. I have been writing in my journal for…
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Back to the Grind
Welcome back ToiTime followers. We had the smallest break in blogs ever, but a break is still a break right?! Well I am back to the grind like so many others. Today was the Mondayish Tuesday ever. Yeah I just…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Monday, Nope Not Today!
You ever have one of them days where things go left but you’re trying to press anyway. That is the day that I had this morning. I say had because in writing this I am releasing that negative energy into…
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Keep your Hands to Yourself
We got to keep our hands to ourselves. So today while out grabbing breakfast before work I see a man shove a woman. I am livid. A man comes from the middle of nowhere and grabs this young man up…
