Birthday Message: 37 is freeing
Soooooooooo it’s the final day of #toibration. It’s my actual birthday today. What a year it has been! Every birthday is a time to renew! It’s a personal New Year! It’s a time to reset! It’s a time to figure…
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Keep it Together….
You never know who sees you or is watching you. Listen I am the one who can literally go off on anybody. I’m my own professional hype woman. However there are times when you have to be able to learn…
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Monday Motivation: Count you blessings
Today is April 30th. That means that the end of the month is here and we are about to step into a new month. Often times we judge ourselves on what others have done in comparison to what we have…
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Real Love: Friendship Edition
So I have been documenting my journey during various stints of my life. I have talked extensively about moving to Philadelphia from Lancaster and how hard it was for me to adjust to life in general. I STRUGGLED. There were…
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One year down… weight loss-chronicles
Welp a year has come. I have managed to keep my weight off and in addition I’ve managed to fight through the ups and downs along the journey. I’ve lost around 70 pounds to date but it wasn’t easy having…
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Monday Madness
Happy Monday. I find when I say that I get so much backlash. Already today I have been confronted by the “it ain’t no happy Monday.” Or I got “I hate Mondays!” I get it. It’s hard to push through…
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Ask Toi: How do you survive the argumentative double date?!
So the back story is a reader is married and friends with another girl and her husband and they often go out on double dates except the dates have become uncomfortable due to the invited couple arguing and making a…
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Sunday Message: Moving Slowly
There are many weekends when I move like super fast. I am on point and getting things done seem like a breeze. Then there are those times when I feel out of place, out of water, and quite frankly there are…
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Women’s History Month; Cheryl A., an Update
Good day to all. We have none other than Cheryl A. who is coming back to us with an update. If you remember we interviewed her on March 3, 2016. At the time a lot of her goals had not…
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Sunday Message: Get you a Life
Good Sunday morning! Today I am having a pretty calm day. I spent most of my Saturday having my own personal day of sorts. It was great; music, fun, movies, lunches family, friends, and a few drinks! But as I…