Self Date, Table for one, Self-Love Moments
It’s easy for me at this stage of my life to do things on my own because I am married and I have kids. A lot of people want that life but the thought of going out alone is one…
Marriage
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Ask Toi: My fiancé wants to invite a “friend” that she friend zoned in her past, how do I tell her no without looking jealous?
For those who don’t understand the concept of friend zone that is when someone male or female has pretty much politely rejected any advances that you give off. This is the polite way to keep the buddy and the booty…
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Ask Toi: How do you deal with someone who Deflects all the time?
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
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I was therefore I am…own your …. edition
So we are in the New Year and so many of us are trying to be positive and make change. With that in mind we have to be honest about what we have done or do that contribute to some…
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How many days for Your Yes?
So I wanted to get this blog all ready for motivational Monday but life is funny. Between the kids being out of school for all but one day last week, they ended up with a half a day yesterday. This…
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Depression, I feel a Whole Lot Better
Oh how depression shows up. Today I had the honor of attending the Black Girls Run brunch where we celebrated our 2017 accomplishments of run, health, and fitness. Many of the women ran themselves from needing medication to control diabetes,…
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If it ain’t funny, ain’t no LOL!!
So let’s dive right in. Sometimes you are stuck between being yourself which may include being vocal or direct and then when you’re working on yourself to be a better person you second guess yourself. Something so simple can make…
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Ask Toi: End of the Year Edition
I am going to end my Ask Toi with a few that I have yet to publish and answer. I pray that as we close this last month out and this week that you will go into the New Year…
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Christmas with Elmo at Sesame Place
The holidays brings on so many options in how families and friends choose to celebrate. This is the first year that we have been able to take our kids to a winter outside celebration of any sort that wasn’t indoors….
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Sunday Message:When to Move on
I love what I do. I love blogging and giving advice or for me sharing what works for me. I believe there are a lot of people who benefit from hearing about the common things that we all go through…
