Sunday Message: Know your Position
So this morning I decided to meet up with my girl crew for a run. This particular run they decided to change the route. I was okay with it. I felt strong physically and mentally to get it done. I…
Marriage
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Thanksgiving 2017: Break a Few Rules
So I really do hope everyone survived Thanksgiving especially for the readers that asked for advice. Not everyone was surrounded by love sometimes they are surrounded by dysfunctional family or friends and getting through may have been the only goal….
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Ask Toi: How do I encourage the love of my life to do the old things they once did?
This is a very sensitive subject. Often times women and men can lose their way when it comes to keeping the spark lit. One of the things to keep in mind is to look at what may have happened that…
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When 2018 Comes…
Every year we run the same list. When the New Year comes I’mma do this and that. I’mma give folks what they give me. I’mma lose the weight. I’mma, I’mma ….. You know I’m all for goals. However you can…
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Ask Toi: Can I monitor his weight as his wife?
No. In my mind when I hear you say monitor especially with everything else you have said in your letter you come off as motherly. Your job is to influence and encourage not to mother. When you use words like…
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Sunday Message: When the Love doesn’t Match!!
You know you can wear mitch matched socks for awhile until something happens and you get caught. On the very day you were trying to be incognito you trip or fall or something happens that reveals you were out in…
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Ask Toi: You Got Questions….
Is not inviting someone with kids an acceptable reason for disincluding someone in your wedding?! No. Bottom line is if you’re being told this the kicker is they didn’t want to invite you. Your kids was the easy get out…
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Ask Toi: Holiday Edition
I am afraid to tell my parents that I do not want to stay at their house during the holidays. How do I do it? I would have the conversation now before the holidays really shift into gear. Try to…
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Ask Toi: We got some questions
Is it okay to air out a grievance about a company or individual who didn’t offer a good service or a faulty product? If they have a social media page for their work than yes. Business is business. In this…
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Check Your Own Body
I have so many tips for doing different work outs but I am not a professional so I really have what works for me. I don’t even act like my fail proof plan is a Godsend for all, however there…
