Emotional Taxes
So today was something like an epic fail of sorts emotionally. I can’t put my finger on one event that set me off but once I was there, it was hard to retreat. I have been writing in my journal for…
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As Toi: Why is it seem that my boyfriend only needs me in tragedy?
There are a lot of determining factors. It could be just how you feel, it could be because your boyfriend isn’t one to show much emotion or the way you want him to express it, or he may just be…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Broke and Blessed
So the holidays have always reminded me of just how hard working my parents were and are. It reminds me of how blessed I really am. It’s no secret that at one point my family and I lived in a…
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Ask Toi: How do I resolve an argument with my husband regarding holiday traditions?
Simple. When you are married you both are coming from 2 different backgrounds. Even if you have similar backgrounds, the way you are both used to things will be different. Find out what means the most to the both of…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
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Hurting the Kids
The kids should be off limits. So with the holidays in full swing we need to have a discussion about mixing families. It’s no secret that people are master manipulators. There is no fail proof way to determine if the…
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By Any Means Necessary… Women Traditional Work
I used to seriously judge other women. Gasp. Yes little ole me. My judgement had a lot to do with the non traditional ways that women have made their living. What I mean about that is things like prostitution, marrying…
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“My married friends are worst than my single ones…”
I want to knock on wood, pray to baby Jesus the Black and the White one, go in a trance that I never have to know the betrayal of a husband in the form of another woman having my husband’s…
