Husband vs. Hubby
There really is no debate. A husband and hubby aren’t one in the same. I see so many women who have these long-term boyfriends calling him “my hubby”. Okay let’s break this down. This “hubby” of yours is someone you…
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Ask Toi: What is the Worst Part about being Married?
Well let me put some thought into that question. Marriage is beautiful but since I stay on the keep it real train, I have to say there are some drawbacks. A lot of women can’t wait to be married. They…
Ask Toi: My husband is in the way, how do I end this?
The back story is that whenever the couple goes out especially in groups the wife feels like the husband is the third leg type of person since he has no relationship with her friends. My answer to this is why…
Keep Your Knee Pads
I want every lady to hear me. I need you to hear me loud and clear this morning. We as ladies have to have respect for ourselves. I had a discussion with my husband and we talked about the male…
Ask Toi: Why is it seem my married friends always down me because I am not married?
There is a sense of accomplishment when a woman gets married. I’m not saying all women but a lot of them think that having a wedding ring and a marriage that means they have arrived. What you have arrived to…
Ask Toi: Is it ever okay to text/call someone else’s mate?
From my reader: “My cousin constantly calls my husband for things. It could be a ride, borrow money, there’s no limit. I have said something numerous times to my husband to stop answering the calls but he said he doesn’t…
Ola September!!
So new month, new goals. Did I mention how much I love the Fall? Like I love, love it. I love Summer but for me Fall is like going to a surprise birthday party. I just wake up with that…
Ask Toi: How do you Co-parent?
One of the things I can say is that I do not have to do the traditional co-parent with my husband now. We are married and we live in the same house. However we had some real conversations once our…
On My Own Terms
So this weekend I was able to cross the beach off of Summer list to-dos. It’s not like I went on a major vacation but the reality is that I was able to really enjoy some down time with just…
Relationship Overhaul: Asking for too much too soon
Well here we go with more relationship questions from my Ask Toi. Again if you want to ask an anonymous question please do so on [email protected] Too Much, Too Soon? Today’s question comes from a young lady who wants to know…