No Dads Allowed, If You Believe the BS!
So a few weeks ago I asked several followers who had kids under 10 to help me with today’s blog. I want to thank all of the women who responded. I needed women who were considered the main primary caregiver…
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Ask Toi: How do I tell my mom that she can’t smoke in my house?
Respect in your home is paramount. You just have to take a deep breath and tell her. You don’t ever have to be disrespectful in telling her. The flip is that you don’t have to feel that by telling her…
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Silent Treatments is Abuse
I got a letter or email I should say from a reader who is experiencing this. Holidays are great but the holidays regardless of what it is for brings out the worst in others. My prayer to my reader as…
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Surgery update 2.0
So thank you to all who tuned into my first update. I have read your messages and trust me I can feel the love and support. It’s love and support that gets most surgery patients of any kind through. No…
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Ask Toi: What should I do if someone from my past or new love interest knocks and I’m already connected?!
If you’re already connected and the interested person doesn’t know you need to tell them. If they know but still pushing up than know they just like the chase and want to see if you will take the bait. As…
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Ask Toi: I recently overheard a song that I used to share with an ex, my current boyfriend thinks I should stop singing it, what should I do?
Nothing. It’s a song. There is nothing that your current boyfriend can do with the fact that you have a memory with an ex. It’s life. We all have them. I have them. The point is to see it as…
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Ask Toi: My husband cheated and now wants to go to counseling after months of asking. I don’t want to go now because I feel like it’s after the point. I also don’t want to sit and hear about how sorry he is now when I don’t believe him….
Well first of all let me say how sorry I am that you have been put in this situation. First of all let me acknowledge that how you feel is real and honest. I am quite sure that was your…
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Ask Toi: My husband has told me he doesn’t want to go out on dates unless I can reassure him it will lead to sex…What do I do?
First of all you have to ask him why he feels that way. There is a reason. If he doesn’t feel as if he is getting enough than maybe asking when you have special evenings is the reason. You will…
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Ask Toi: What do I do my husband found out my password is my ex’s name?
First of all how did he find out? I know plenty of couples who know passwords and passcodes to things and that is not an issue. You stated that he “found” out which would sound as if he didn’t have…
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My Weight Loss Journey
So Happy Valentine’s Day. Today is February 14th. I am super excited among all the candy and treats that will be thrown around today to talk about my weight loss journey. Currently I am down another size in my clothes…
