Recovery week 3.0
I am super happy that I have finally made it to my 3rd week. It was a struggle to get here. I am finally getting around better. That in itself is a blessing. So from the beginning pain management was…
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Silent Treatments is Abuse
I got a letter or email I should say from a reader who is experiencing this. Holidays are great but the holidays regardless of what it is for brings out the worst in others. My prayer to my reader as…
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Jayz 4:44
So you know you heard about it. The new anticipated album of Jayz has hit and so have all of the reviews. So I’m not about to analyze every song and their meaning. However let’s get to the grit of…
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Just because dad says so
Growing up in our house my parents had their individual voices. They never told us wait until the other got home to handle us. They would speak and they knew they would be heard. It was never this thing of…
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Surgery update 2.0
So thank you to all who tuned into my first update. I have read your messages and trust me I can feel the love and support. It’s love and support that gets most surgery patients of any kind through. No…
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Surgery update
So today is Tuesday June 20, 2017 and it’s 4 days post hysterectomy surgery. How I am doing is mixed with a lot of emotions. This surgery was out of need but I’m grateful for having a team of doctors…
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Ask Toi: What should I do if someone from my past or new love interest knocks and I’m already connected?!
If you’re already connected and the interested person doesn’t know you need to tell them. If they know but still pushing up than know they just like the chase and want to see if you will take the bait. As…
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Ask Toi: I really want to take a sex break from my husband but how?
This is definitely a first of hearing of such breaks in a marriage. I don’t know how that will roll over with your husband. I am sure you have your reasons so you will definitely need to lead the conversations…
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Ask Toi: My cousin came to my home while my husband and I was on a date and my sitter wouldn’t let her in…
Okay you and your husband is on a date. You have a sitter and you are care free. Then an unexpected family memeber comes to the home but no heads up was given to the sitter so she doesn’t allow…
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Stress Awareness: Emotional Stress
Emotional stress is one of the stressors that attaches itself to one of the other stresses we discussed. If your mind is all over the place, allowing you to think about all kinds of thing it will affect your emotions…
