Monday Motivation: Work Jealousy
Jealousy can be super ugly. When someone is jealous of you they do not have your best intention in mind. They do not wish you well. This is why you have to be aware of these allegiances you make at…
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The Complainer
Let me just say and acknowledge that I used to be the one that got on everyone’s nerves with complaining. I mean as much as I blamed everyone else for the inability to deal with it, the truth of the…
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Ask Toi: What do I do if I want to expose a person?
This is a general question. There really needs to be followed up with questions to this situation. Focus on the meaning as to why you want to expose the person. If it’s due to a crime or harm especially where…
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Ask Toi: Was I Wrong for calling my husband a child?!
Yes. For my readers women all over call their husband an “extra child.” However that shouldn’t be a serious conversation and not in front of other people. This wife made a scene at a restaurant and then called him a…
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Keep it Together….
You never know who sees you or is watching you. Listen I am the one who can literally go off on anybody. I’m my own professional hype woman. However there are times when you have to be able to learn…
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Ask Toi: Is it okay for a live in boyfriend not to come home?
Absolutely not okay. When you’re living with your boyfriend or girlfriend there are no days that are schedule for either one of you to have sleepover at other people’s home. This makes zero sense to me. The one way to…
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Everything Ain’t About You
Listen I know that there are times when you can have sensitive spirits. It could be that you are going through a rough patch but please know that everything ain’t about you. There are times when you have to attempt…
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Teach the Babies-You’re Not Everyone’s Cup of Tea
So this week the recurring theme has been forgiveness. This is a tough lesson for many adults let alone my own son. This week for both of my older kids the trying to teach them to understand that its okay…
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Ask Toi: How do you deal with someone who Deflects all the time?
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
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Shoot Your Shot
Well let’s have a little talk about going after what you want. The other day I was leaving the gym and a man approached me and asked to take me to dinner. I politely declined. I didn’t need to make…