The Mirage is really A smoke Screen
People, good people, good morning. Listen let’s have a serious talk about what appears to be and what is. We ALL have put out into the atmosphere our very best self. We post the best pics out of the 100…
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The Dirty Mirror
Well good morning. We are all coming off from either a good Mother’s Day or one we would not rather talk about. It is evident in the posts I saw on social media. However let’s shift our gears a bit…
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T.I.-Marriage is a distraction
I love T.I. but my love for him will never cloud my judgement on whether or not I think the words coming out of his mouth is right or not. His marriage has been under fire for many years. Recently…
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Humble, my ass….Tyrese rant on Black Women
Love comes in many forms. Having a preference is not the issue. Being rude to a specific any thing whether race, hair, etc. is wrong. Unless you live under a rock it’s no secret that R&B singer, Tyrese Gibson has…
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What your Married Friends Won’t Tell You
So I am going to a wedding today. I know without a doubt this union is just going to be a beautiful celebration of two people who really do love each other and who are both committed to being there…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Ask Toi: We have an open marriage in that we don’t check in with each other but now he’s booking trips without me, what do I do?
This not checking in life for marriage doesn’t settle with me. Even in the absence of children in a marriage this concept of everyone doing them sounds like polar opposite of what marriage looks like to ME. This is my…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
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Ask Toi: My husband has told me he doesn’t want to go out on dates unless I can reassure him it will lead to sex…What do I do?
First of all you have to ask him why he feels that way. There is a reason. If he doesn’t feel as if he is getting enough than maybe asking when you have special evenings is the reason. You will…
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Ask Toi: What do I do my husband found out my password is my ex’s name?
First of all how did he find out? I know plenty of couples who know passwords and passcodes to things and that is not an issue. You stated that he “found” out which would sound as if he didn’t have…
