Sunday Message: Share and Open Yourself
So good Sunday evening. As I blog this my whole house is quiet and napping and that calls for a great glass of wine. But before I do that I had to share a little something with you. I love…
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The Importance of Preserving Yourself; Burnout Edition
Call it self-care or the ability to not lose your mind in this crazy and sometimes evil world! The way things are setting up you better figure out how to be your own best friend, confidant, and master cheerleader. Trust…
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Ask Toi: Was I Wrong for calling my husband a child?!
Yes. For my readers women all over call their husband an “extra child.” However that shouldn’t be a serious conversation and not in front of other people. This wife made a scene at a restaurant and then called him a…
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Ask Toi: How do you survive the argumentative double date?!
So the back story is a reader is married and friends with another girl and her husband and they often go out on double dates except the dates have become uncomfortable due to the invited couple arguing and making a…
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Ask Toi: How do I tell Others to Back up on the baby talk?
This question is coming from a newlywed so here is my answer: Simply thank them for their concern and let them know that when the time is right you will have or not have a child. The decision is…
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Women’s Month, Year of the Woman: Stephanie S!
Thank you to the wonderful women who answered the call to be interviewed. It takes a lot to open up about who you are. You are who you are and this process can be a little intimidating. Thank you to…
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How to Handle Valentine’s Day When you are Beefing
Valentine’s Day is this week and it would be nice if all couples were in an a sea of love and like. That is ideal but it’s not always real. Man Made Holiday These man-made holidays don’t always have timing…
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Ask Toi: My fiancé wants to invite a “friend” that she friend zoned in her past, how do I tell her no without looking jealous?
For those who don’t understand the concept of friend zone that is when someone male or female has pretty much politely rejected any advances that you give off. This is the polite way to keep the buddy and the booty…
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Ask Toi: How do you deal with someone who Deflects all the time?
Consistency and straightforwardness. There is no other way. You will have to find a way not to be like the person you are dealing with. Be clear and concise. Say what you mean and mean what you say. People who…
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I was therefore I am…own your …. edition
So we are in the New Year and so many of us are trying to be positive and make change. With that in mind we have to be honest about what we have done or do that contribute to some…
