When 2018 Comes…
Every year we run the same list. When the New Year comes I’mma do this and that. I’mma give folks what they give me. I’mma lose the weight. I’mma, I’mma ….. You know I’m all for goals. However you can…
Relationship
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Ask Toi: Can I monitor his weight as his wife?
No. In my mind when I hear you say monitor especially with everything else you have said in your letter you come off as motherly. Your job is to influence and encourage not to mother. When you use words like…
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Sunday Message: When the Love doesn’t Match!!
You know you can wear mitch matched socks for awhile until something happens and you get caught. On the very day you were trying to be incognito you trip or fall or something happens that reveals you were out in…
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Ask Toi: You Got Questions….
Is not inviting someone with kids an acceptable reason for disincluding someone in your wedding?! No. Bottom line is if you’re being told this the kicker is they didn’t want to invite you. Your kids was the easy get out…
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Ask Toi: Holiday Edition
I am afraid to tell my parents that I do not want to stay at their house during the holidays. How do I do it? I would have the conversation now before the holidays really shift into gear. Try to…
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Save the Drama for your Momma
You ever hear that when you were a kid? Absolutely you have. That was the cry when you wanted someone know from the gate you wasn’t here for their crap. This was before it became popular to say “you tried…
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Sunday Message: You Don’t have to choose
I’m hoping this Sunday you’re doing well. Today’s message is about not having to choose. Last night I went out with a girlfriend to see A Bad Mom’s Christmas. Spoiler alert-it’s a must see. My daughter looked at me and…
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Weekend Recap: Monday October 30
I usually give a weekly recap but I was off from my daytime job on Friday and spent some time getting some things in order as well as attended some activities with my kids. So let’s recap. Here is your…
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Together Live 2017
So as I’ve been saying I was attending the Together Live Tour here in Philadelphia. And finally the day came. I know for a fact that it was money well spent. From the time I entered the theatre until I…
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Ask Toi: Do I Apologize to My Co-Worker?
The issue from the follower was where the co-worker had been irritating them to the point where the coworker wasn’t communicating well if they had been offended by the reader’s actions and stormed off…… Should the co-worker apologize or let…
