I Got You Ma…
Well where I live it’s about to be a nice 90 degrees. This is a signal to every female of what to expect in the coming months. It doesn’t matter if you’re single, married, or an alien, if you are…
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Single Moms Survival Kit
So life of a single mom has usually a few things tied to it, stress and time. There isn’t anyone that can help lighten their load. They play the role of both parents which is almost nearly impossible. They have…
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Protect your Babies-Step it up!
I was watching a video of a judge that was reprimanding a couple. The mother of the child that was brutally beat and killed was held responsible too for the heinous death as she should be. However the part that…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Ask Toi: I am dating a woman and I am a woman and my girlfriend is very controlling..says that shes been better than anyone male or female and I should deal, what is your advice?
It doesn’t matter to me that you are a woman dating another woman. No relationship should be so demanding and controlling. If it makes you uncomfortable than it should be heard and followed through with change, period. Just because a…
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Emotional Taxes
So today was something like an epic fail of sorts emotionally. I can’t put my finger on one event that set me off but once I was there, it was hard to retreat. I have been writing in my journal for…
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As Toi: Why is it seem that my boyfriend only needs me in tragedy?
There are a lot of determining factors. It could be just how you feel, it could be because your boyfriend isn’t one to show much emotion or the way you want him to express it, or he may just be…
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Bling and Foundations
As you know the holidays are a magical time. Everyone is buzzing around and being in the best moods for the most part. Gifts are getting purchased and wrapped. Egg nog is being enjoyed. This is also the time that…
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Fake Marriages and Why?
So every last relationship on this planet is different. Not one is the same no matter how many similarities may exist. So my thing is that women do NOT need to be married. I know men are measured by their…
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31 Days and Change is Coming-New Year
A New Year is coming! Well I hate to be the bearer of bad news or good news depending on how you see it, but a new Year is coming soon. I know everyone will wait until after Christmas to…
