What it Means to be a Woman
The statement of what it means to be a woman is so complicated. Some would answer this in relation to their status meaning a wife or mother but the reality is being a woman when you strip the titles is…
women
-
-
Ask Toi: What do I do my husband found out my password is my ex’s name?
First of all how did he find out? I know plenty of couples who know passwords and passcodes to things and that is not an issue. You stated that he “found” out which would sound as if he didn’t have…
-
Cat Fight Chronicles
You know there’s a thing about women being catty. Not all women but quite a few. The reason in my opinion as to why there are so many catty women in the world is that we don’t have enough women who…
-
Nancy you have got to go…
You ever meet a real life negative Nancy? The one who complains about the sun being in the sky. They always have some rebuttal for everything you say. They are dissatisfied in their own lives and the only time they…
-
Natural is not a Phase
If you look around in the African-American community you see so many embracing themselves for the first time. It’s a beautiful thing. It’s not a phase for most. This is the time to really embrace yourself in all of your…
-
My Weight Loss Journey
So Happy Valentine’s Day. Today is February 14th. I am super excited among all the candy and treats that will be thrown around today to talk about my weight loss journey. Currently I am down another size in my clothes…
-
Insomnia, ToiTime’s Way: Valentine’s Day Warning
Okay picture this it was 2005 and I had been out of college for a few years. So I had met my Mr. Right Now and he had me in an outer body experience. I hadn’t introduced him to my…
-
Let Love Be Great!
So this is the weekend when most people will take their significant others out and show them love. Let me just say that everyone doesn’t celebrate this “man-made” holiday however let me encourage all in a few home keeping details….
-
Get Your Ass Home
So recently my husband celebrated his birthday with a birthday trip with some of his closest friends. Now I am team enjoy your birthday and before we married we took trips separately etc. So him going away wasn’t a big…
-
Loving the One You’re With is Old…
I know age is a number so that is not at all what we are talking about today. We are talking about loving on someone who doesn’t serve a purpose. Its played out. It’s draining. It’s delusional to say the…
