Losing my Mind
So as we continue in the stress management month and talk about mind issues, what happens when it seems you have lost your mind? You know that feeling where the very fiber of your being has fallen and you are…
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Stress Month: Mental Set Backs
So it’s Wednesday and I have just gotten to getting my life together for this week I think. April is stress awareness month. For the month we will try to break down stress in all categories possible. This week we…
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No Accounts
So one of my favorite cousins had a conversation about no accounts. When we first started talking it was about no account mammies. Yes I said mammies. No account mammies are the moms who have kids and don’t take care…
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Why Am I Pushing Self Care/Self Love?
If you follow me on Twitter and you should (Toitimeblog) I am really pushing others as well as myself to really think about what it is they need to make them see, feel and know that they are loved. This…
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Weekly Wrap Up: March 24, 2017
So I want to start doing a weekly wrap up with my readers. I first want to say thank you for rocking out with me. Some of you have been loyal since day one 2 years ago and some are…
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We not washing now…Hygiene and Relationships
So I was listening to Steve Harvey show yesterday when I heard the strawberry letter about a wife that is no longer washing her behind. Hygiene is important. Now I have personally answered I think at least 2 Ask Toi…
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Ask Toi: My husband cheated and now wants to go to counseling after months of asking. I don’t want to go now because I feel like it’s after the point. I also don’t want to sit and hear about how sorry he is now when I don’t believe him….
Well first of all let me say how sorry I am that you have been put in this situation. First of all let me acknowledge that how you feel is real and honest. I am quite sure that was your…
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Ask Toi: My ex got in contact with me to tell me that I am miserable its messing with my head,what can I do?
There’s something I learned I believe from my mom, you can’t stop people from calling (back then you couldn’t) but you can choose who you answer. You do NOT need to entertain your ex’s shenanigans. Even if that was true…
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Ask Toi: I am dating a woman and I am a woman and my girlfriend is very controlling..says that shes been better than anyone male or female and I should deal, what is your advice?
It doesn’t matter to me that you are a woman dating another woman. No relationship should be so demanding and controlling. If it makes you uncomfortable than it should be heard and followed through with change, period. Just because a…
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Ask Toi: My husband has told me he doesn’t want to go out on dates unless I can reassure him it will lead to sex…What do I do?
First of all you have to ask him why he feels that way. There is a reason. If he doesn’t feel as if he is getting enough than maybe asking when you have special evenings is the reason. You will…
