Sunday Message: Know your Position
So this morning I decided to meet up with my girl crew for a run. This particular run they decided to change the route. I was okay with it. I felt strong physically and mentally to get it done. I…
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How to address an Elder
Respect is necessary when you deal with anyone. Elders should always have the highest respect. That is way I was taught but…….there is an addendum to respect that need to be addressed. Elders have earned their spot in the family….
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Thanksgiving 2017: Break a Few Rules
So I really do hope everyone survived Thanksgiving especially for the readers that asked for advice. Not everyone was surrounded by love sometimes they are surrounded by dysfunctional family or friends and getting through may have been the only goal….
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Thanksgiving Tips To Get Through
It’s here, it’s finally here. The start of the Thanksgiving and the holidays can begin. For all of those that have been dreading this I have tips to help. Any of those who welcome it, it’s time to go into…
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When 2018 Comes…
Every year we run the same list. When the New Year comes I’mma do this and that. I’mma give folks what they give me. I’mma lose the weight. I’mma, I’mma ….. You know I’m all for goals. However you can…
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Ask Toi: Can I monitor his weight as his wife?
No. In my mind when I hear you say monitor especially with everything else you have said in your letter you come off as motherly. Your job is to influence and encourage not to mother. When you use words like…
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Sunday Message: When the Love doesn’t Match!!
You know you can wear mitch matched socks for awhile until something happens and you get caught. On the very day you were trying to be incognito you trip or fall or something happens that reveals you were out in…
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Ask Toi: You Got Questions….
Is not inviting someone with kids an acceptable reason for disincluding someone in your wedding?! No. Bottom line is if you’re being told this the kicker is they didn’t want to invite you. Your kids was the easy get out…
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Save the Drama for your Momma
You ever hear that when you were a kid? Absolutely you have. That was the cry when you wanted someone know from the gate you wasn’t here for their crap. This was before it became popular to say “you tried…
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Together Live 2017
So as I’ve been saying I was attending the Together Live Tour here in Philadelphia. And finally the day came. I know for a fact that it was money well spent. From the time I entered the theatre until I…
